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Subject: the secret habit (masturb*tion) !!!
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akramwap 29.08.12 - 10:25pm
this was a question been asked by Non-Muslim brother...and the answer is according to Islam. *
akramwap 29.08.12 - 10:29pm
i hope the brother could be enlighten with this Great religion , becouse its Not only a simple religion ,its a religion of peace ,,(peace for heart, peace for mind, peace for body , peace for external and internal) May Allah Guide all Non-Muslims to the right path ..aammeen. *
akramwap 29.08.12 - 10:30pm
Now to answer your Question ...
Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:
According to Islam
The secret habit is haraam,
You have to repent from this action by giving it up, and regretting what you have done, and resolving not to go back to it. *
akramwap 29.08.12 - 10:31pm
Secondly:
The way to treat this bad habit is to understand the devastating damage that it causes and to follow the advice given by shareeah.
With regard to the harm caused by this secret habit, researchers are agreed that it is harmful, and that it increases and gets worse the more a person whether male or female does it. Researchers have written a great deal about the psychological, intellectual and nervous damage it causes, let alone the physical damage to the reproductive system, the digestive system, the heart, the faculties and the body in general.
It is a good idea to refer to some of the things that have been written about this habit.
Quoting from the book al-Aadah al-Sirriyyah inda al-rajul wal-marah wa adraaruha (The secret habit among men and women and the harm it causes) by Muhammad Faaiq al-Jawhari:
This is in addition to the negative effects it has in the spiritual realm which is not mentioned by most researchers of causing the person to neglect prayers because of the need to repeat ghusl, especially during the winter; and weakness of resolve in resisting the means of immorality and provocation. In addition to that there is the sense of psychological defeat which leads some people to forsake righteous friends, because they feel that they do not deserve to be in their company, in addition to it being one of the means of taking lightly immoral actions such as zina and homosexuality. *
akramwap 29.08.12 - 10:32pm
Thirdly:
With regard to shari advice, we advise the following:
1 Lower your gaze and avoid looking at haraam things. That includes not looking at women on the TV, for the pictures of women that are shown on the TV are one of the greatest causes of fitnah (temptation) and provocation of desire. Forbidden looks are one of the arrows of the Shaytaan. If you are fulfilling your desire by means of the secret habit now, you will not be able to control this desire and prevent yourself from satisfying it by means of other major sins that are even more serious, such as homosexuality and zina.
2 Avoiding being alone. The wolf only eats the sheep that strays away from the flock, and the Shaytaan gains control over the man who is on his own, but he is further away from two and even further away from three.
3 Fast a great deal. This is the advice of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) to young men who are unable to get married. Fasting is a way of disciplining oneself, lowering the gaze and guarding one's chastity.
4 Making a lot of duaa, praying for forgiveness and glorifying Allaah. Whoever keeps himself busy with this, the Shaytaan will have no way to tempt him and lead him astray. *
akramwap 29.08.12 - 10:32pm
5 Praying sincerely that Allaah will keep you away from haraam things and whatever leads to them. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
And your Lord said: Invoke Me [i.e. believe in My Oneness (Islamic Monotheism) and ask Me for anything] I will respond to your (invocation)
[Ghaafir 40:60]
6 Keeping company with righteous people. A righteous friend will only show you the way to good. Ali ibn Abi Taalib (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: It is enough honour for my brothers that I do not disobey Allaah among them.
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akramwap 29.08.12 - 10:38pm
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